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Meet our Leadership Team:

Peter Gordon
Head of School

Peter Gordon, Head of School, is responsible for all school operations that include instruction and learning, professional development, accreditation, admissions, development, business, and community relationships. Peter works closely with the Board of Directors to ensure that the Pardes learning environment reflects the school’s core values and adherence to excellence. As Head of School, Peter ensures that the school’s mission, which states, “Pardes Jewish Day School prepares students to become outstanding members of society through a rigorous secular and Judaic education, a nurturing community, and a foundation in Reform Judaism that welcomes all Jewish traditions” is both adhered to and advanced. Providing a school community that is warm, inclusive, and positive and where each individual is inspired to do his or her best is very important to him.

Peter served as the Head of Hilltop Country Day School from 2015-2017, and from 2005-2015, held positions as the Associate Director of Admissions and Director of Financial Aid, and Middle School Director at The Brimmer and May School in Chestnut Hill, Massachusetts. Peter is the proud parent of Noah and Olivia, two of Pardes’ newest Kindergartners.

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Tobee Waxenberg Tobee Waxenberg
Dean of Students

Tobee Waxenberg is responsible for the day-to-day operations of the school.  She prepares and maintains the school schedule, special programming, and events.  Tobee oversees the Hineini program and any other programs that are brought on campus to help support our students.  She maintains student discipline and supports the teachers in their work with students.

Tobee began her teaching career as a high school debate coach and sociology teacher.  Upon moving to Phoenix, she was hired by the Bureau of Jewish Education to establish the Jewish Resource Center.  Over the years, Tobee taught at Hebrew High and Temple Solel.  Additionally, she was Religious School Principal both at Temple Solel and Temple Kol Ami.

Tobee has been with Pardes since its inception, twenty three years ago.  In 2001, Tobee was asked to be Director of the Pardes Middle School, which opened on the campus of Temple Kol Ami.

Tobee and her husband Jim have lived in Phoenix since 1980.  They have two children, Andy (Hallie) and Natalie and two grandchildren, Lily and Ella.

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Mitch Flatow

Mitch Flatow
Assistant Head of School, Director of Jewish Life

Mitch Flatow, Assistant Head of School, Director of Jewish Life, oversees the Jewish Studies faculty and the Hebrew Language Coordinator, directs Jewish life on campus, and inspires students, parents and faculty with a love of Judaism. Additionally, he works with the LS/MS Coordinator to assist with various aspects of the secular curriculum. Mitch is energetic, enthusiastic and has a spirit for all things Jewish. This is his sixth year at Pardes and he loves the school, its faculty, students and families.

Mitch is a graduate of Rutgers University. His Masters of Education is from Xavier University in Cincinnati, Ohio in both Elementary and Secondary Administration. He has been in Jewish education almost 30 years and has been a teacher, assistant principal, assistant head of school, and head of school. He completed Project SuLaM, a RAVSAK initiative for leaders of Jewish day schools, and attended the Lookstein Center at Bar Ilan University in Israel, also for leaders of Jewish day schools. As the former Principal and Head of School at the King David School, he is happy to be “home.” He first arrived in the Valley of the Sun in 2004, and after four years at the Gideon Hausner Jewish Day School in Palo Alto, CA, Mitch returned to Phoenix in July 2013.

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Bethany Spector

Bethany Spector
Director of Admissions and Marketing

Bethany Spector is often the first point of contact for families interested in learning about the benefits of a Pardes Education. In her fourth year as Director of Admissions and Marketing, Bethany works with each individual family considering Pardes, guiding them through the steps of the admissions process, answering questions and leading tours. Additionally, Bethany is responsible for all aspects of the school’s marketing efforts.

Bethany joined the Pardes community 12 years ago as a classroom teacher and taught fourth grade at the school for eight years before moving into her current position.  Prior to joining the faculty at Pardes, she taught fifth grade at a local Phoenix charter school and sixth grade language arts in the Montgomery County Public School System in Maryland.  Before entering the education field, Bethany worked in marketing and event planning for two different non-profit organizations in the Washington, D.C. area.

Bethany earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Political Science from Washington University in St. Louis and her Master of Arts degree in Education with a focus in elementary education from The Johns Hopkins University.  Bethany and her husband Jay are the proud parents of two children, both of whom have attended Pardes since kindergarten.  Their daughter is in the seventh grade, and their son is in fourth grade.

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Dawn Gutierrez

Dawn Gutierrez
Learning Resources Coordinator

Dawn Gutierrez is the Coordinator of Learning Resources at Pardes Jewish Day School.  In her role, Dawn works collaboratively with the Learning Resources Team to assist students, grades K-8 who may need academic supports to ensure their success in the classroom.  Dawn will be meeting with students, parents, and teachers to create a service learning plan for any student who would benefit from accommodations or adaptations to his/her school work, and/or additional small-group remediation and instruction.

Dawn Gutierrez has been a special educator in Arizona since 1971, working as a teacher and administrator in both public and private schools.  She earned her Bachelor in Science degree from Northern Illinois University, with a major in Special Education and Elementary Education, and her Masters in Special Education from the University of Arizona (Go Wildcats!)  Over the years, she has attended and presented at countless educational seminars and professional conferences to stay abreast of the latest research and best practices on educating children with learning differences.

After a 27 year career as teacher and Head of School at the New Way Academy, an independent school for students K-12 with learning differences such as dyslexia, speech and language processing deficits, ADHD, anxiety, and Autism Spectrum; Dawn passed on the leadership torch and retired.  Working for several years as an educational consultant and tutor, she decided that “retirement” didn’t agree with her and that she missed the excitement and energy of a school community. Dawn began at Pardes two years ago by assisting Jill Kessler with a grant from the Jewish Community Foundation to design an inclusive model for all students who would benefit from learning support at Jewish Day Schools.  She also worked directly with the Pardes Kindergarten teachers and children with a focus on early identification and intervention.

In her free time, Dawn is an active community volunteer, serving as the Board Chair for The Family School, a non-profit early education center in central Phoenix that specializes in helping at-risk children and their families.  Dawn and her husband, Bob, visit their son and his fiance in Berkeley, California, and enjoy the cool Northern California weather as often as they can.

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Patti Evans

Patti Evans
Chief Financial Officer

Patti Evans, CPA, MHSA, is the Chief Financial Officer for Pardes.  She oversees the school's business and financial functions, ensuring that the school's finances are healthy and resilient.  She works closely with the Head of School, the Finance Committee and the Board to set a financial plan for each school year, as well as provide in-depth oversight as the school year unfolds.  In addition to the annual financial plan and tuition-setting, Patti is responsible for all the financial reporting of the school along with specific financial operations such as accounts receivable, accounts payable, payroll and cash management.  She is responsible for risk management, special projects such as school relocation and remodeling, and interfaces with outside business professionals as needed.  She also administers the school's benefits plans as well as oversees employment, personnel and compensation matters.  Patti also serves as the school's Financial Aid Officer and serves on the board of the Jewish Tuition Organization.

Patti has been a CPA for 38 years, graduating with a degree in Accounting from the University of Illinois in Champaign-Urbana.  Her Master's degree in Health Services Administration is from Arizona State University.  She served on the board of Temple Solel as the day school that has ultimately become Pardes was founded, and has remain involved ever since.  In her free time, Patti enjoys being with her family (especially her two new grandchildren,) gardening, cooking, reading and hiking.

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Tami Adelman

Tami Adelman
Director of School Advancement

Tami Adelman is responsible for oversight of all Pardes fundraising activities, including the Annual Fund, Pardes Gala, and the Life & Legacy Endowment Program.

Since 1992, Ms. Adelman has served in various capacities throughout the Jewish communities of Washington, D.C., Baltimore, and Phoenix.  She began as the Director of International, Governmental and Israel Affairs for the Jewish Community Council of Greater Washington, and was later promoted to Assistant Director of the Council.

In 1997, she came to the Valley to be Director of the Jewish Community Relations Council of Greater Phoenix. In that position, Ms. Adelman was directly involved in legislative and political advocacy and also served as the agency's liaison to the media.

In 2002, Ms. Adelman returned to her native Baltimore as Executive Vice President of the Baltimore Zionist District, the largest independent Zionist organization in the United States.  She came back to the Valley three years later, joining the American Technion Society - Israel Institute of Technology as its Assistant Director, Western Region, for whom she was directly responsible for major gifts fundraising.

Tami Adelman joined Pardes as Development Director in July, 2010.

Outside the Jewish community, Ms. Adelman worked in the United States Congress as a staff assistant for International Affairs.  She graduated from Towson State University  with a double major in political science and public relations.  She lives in Scottsdale with her husband Steve and their daughter Talia, who is in the eighth grade at Pardes.

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